Eliminate the root cause

You know where it all starts?

When a boy or a girl sitting in group of boys (can be boys and girls), stares a girl or boy and comments "kya fit cheez hai yar"

It starts right from there ap agar larki ya larke ko cheez samjhen gy toh ap ne izzat toh uski wahin khaak main mila di hai.

Sab se pehle toh ap aisi conversations se bahir ayen. Kyun ap ne yeh sab itna normalize kardiya hai k baat itni aage barh gai hai. Chote chote incidents pe aap ka reaction offensive kyun nahin hota kyun koi bhi ek larka ya larki us group main beth k aise comment karne wale ko yeh nahin kehte k yeh intehai ghalat alfaaz ka istemal kiya? Balke sab k sab usko aur barhawa dete hain us ki haan main haan milayi jaati hai k "yaar waqaii tu sahi keh raha hai"

Yeh sab log jo aisi conversations ko normalize kar chuke hain jin main larkiyan aur larke dono shamil hain samjh jayen, it leads to serious consequences. Ap ka mindset aise hojata hai choti choti bat ko ap ignore karte karte bare bare waqaiyaat ko ignore karna shuru kar dete hain.

Root causes ko ap eliminate karne ki koshish karen.

Being a boy or a girl if you have listened to such conversations with no offense, i am extremely sorry to tell you that you are not raised well or may be you are disobeying your parents.

Stop objectifying human beings!

#eliminaterootcauses

Do not! For God's sake do not normalize Rapes. It includes all those conversations and comments that are being passed on boy or a girl which make them uncomfortable. One can not imagine how much and for how long the voice of those words bothers the person targetted for that comment.

My request is to those those boys who are saying not all men are rapists that when u listen someone passing such stupid comments in your group. Educate him or her!

Trust me this will bring alot of change!

Thank you for reading!